Boldness & Virtue: Toxic Connections

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Monday, January 16, 2023

You Are a TARGET: Joseph of the Family (Here's WHY)

You Are a TARGET: Joseph of the Family

(Here's WHY):

(View this video below.)

Black sheep, scapegoat, ostracized, bullied, left out, sabotaged, betrayed, narcissistic abuse. If any of these words and/or experienced sound familiar in your family life, this message might be for you.

As always, take every message and Bible Study you see and hear to our LORD and Savior, Jesus Christ, in prayer. Not every word, or entire word, is for everybody. All glory goes to our Heavenly Father.

NOTE: Please forgive me, there was a paraphrasing, so I must clarify: The chief cup-bearer INITIALLY had forgotten about Joseph . . . but he DID later on remember Joseph and tell Pharaoh about him (of course, God made sure this would happen). Thank you, and may God bless you. 🙏🏽❤️

Bible Verse to Encourage You:

No weapon formed against you shall prosper, And every tongue which rises against you in judgment You shall condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the LORD, And their righteousness is from Me,” Says the LORD.

-Isaiah 54:17

May God Bless You All,
With Sisterly Love,
Boldness & Virtue Ministries,
Charrese Monique

Tuesday, October 11, 2022

God Chose YOU: Generational Change

God Chose YOU: Generational Change:

When YOU have been chosen: to change the whole direction of your family line, to break bad habits, to end toxicity, to stop disastrous patterns, to put a stop to generational curses, to send an ABUNDANCE OF LOVE through the next generations—God using you to accomplish these important, beautiful plans—please understand the following:

You will be attacked, including by . . . especially by . . . your so-called "family" and "friends". So, put on the FULL ARMOR OF GOD, according to Ephesians 6:10-18, 23-24 (below)!

Do not be discouraged! You have a wonderful calling, and the Holy Spirit will guide you all the way through; stay prayerful, all will be just fine! It is always darkest before dawn . . . and when your "dawn" comes . . . WHEN YOUR "DAWN" COMES: it will be BEAUTIFUL! Hang in there!

[Glory to God, the Most High. Hallelujah.]

THE FULL ARMOR OF GOD:

10 A final word: Be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. 11 Put on all of God’s armor so that you will be able to stand firm against all strategies of the devil. 12 For we are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places.

13 Therefore, put on every piece of God’s armor so you will be able to resist the enemy in the time of evil. Then after the battle you will still be standing firm. 14 Stand your ground, putting on the belt of truth and the body armor of God’s righteousness. 15 For shoes, put on the peace that comes from the Good News so that you will be fully prepared. 16 In addition to all of these, hold up the shield of faith to stop the fiery arrows of the devil. 17 Put on salvation as your helmet, and take the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.

18 Pray in the Spirit at all times and on every occasion. Stay alert and be persistent in your prayers for all believers everywhere.

23 Peace be with you, dear brothers and sisters, and may God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ give you love with faithfulness. 24 May God’s grace be eternally upon all who love our Lord Jesus Christ.

-Ephesians 6:10-18, 23-24

God is Love,

All Glory to God,

Boldness & Virtue Ministries

Charrese Monique

Talk to Your Children

Talk to Your Children:

I almost drowned in situations because I was never taught how to swim.

In situations where I should have simply swum away—I remained there panicking, kicking, screaming, crying, afraid, hurting, unsure about my future, drowning . . . because I was never taught how to swim. I even became prey . . ..

(I thank God for His Fatherly love, lessons, healing, and preparation along the way. God kept me afloat.)

Serious talks—about every area of life—with our children are vital. Preparing our children for their future and for life in general is vital. Teaching our children how to recognize red flags and toxicity in others, and even in themselves, it is all vital. Teaching our children when it is time to walk away from toxic situations and people—guilt-free, boldly regardless of feelings, and for the betterment of their well-being, is vital. Teaching our children that not every ending is a "loss", but rather, "gain"—of important life lessons, growth, happiness, new beginnings—is vital. Teaching our children to understand, acknowledge, embrace, and proclaim their value, is vital. Teaching our children how to have and maintain integrity, self-respect, and love for themselves, it is all vital. Teaching our children the importance of having a relationship with God, their Salvation in Jesus Christ, and being led by the Holy Spirit—vital.

Talk to your children! Nurture your children! Sincerely and unconditionally love your children! They are not your competition! Desire the best for them! Help them to grow and fly! Do not look at your children with jealous, covetous, envious eyes! Look at them with love! Talk to your children . . . it is vital. If you cannot help them in an area, that is okay, humbly ask for help from someone whom you can surely trust—just make sure your children are nurtured, growing, and being prepared for life. Make sure your children know that you sincerely love them, unconditionally.

God is Love,

All Glory to God,

Boldness & Virtue Ministries

Charrese Monique

Your Enemies Will Watch Your Elevation

Your Enemies Will Watch Your Elevation:

Some of you are wondering why some people are still around in your life after they have done you wrong . . . why God has not removed them, or why He has not delivered you from them. Here is why (for some of you): Because it says the following in God's Word:

"You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; You anoint my head with oil; My cup runs over."

-Psalm 23:5

Look at the BIGGER picture, and in due time, your circumstances will change. In the meantime, understand the following:

God will heal you—right in front of the same people who hurt you!

God will exalt you—right in front of the same people that put you down and belittled you!

God will bless you—right in front of the same people who tried to curse you, who tried to sabotage you and/or your life, or who harmed you in any way!

God will show you favor—right in front of the people who treated you like you are beneath them, like you are worthless, like you are undeserving of God's best!

God will shower you with His love, with gifts, with blessings—right in front of people who loved you conditionally, those who did not truly love you at all, and the ones who were evil toward you!

GOD IS PREPARING A TABLE FOR YOU IN THE PRESENCE OF YOUR ENEMIES. He has His reasons . . . just know that all things God does is good, and He knows what He is doing. Enjoy your new life. Enjoy your blessings. Enjoy God's purposes for your life. Enjoy your new beginnings. Worry not about your enemies . . . just enjoy your life. Let them talk. Forgive, and enjoy your life. It is a new season . . . it has already begun.

[Thus Say the LORD. Hallelujah!]

God is Love,

All Glory to God,

Boldness & Virtue Ministries

Charrese Monique

Friday, October 7, 2022

My Hair Disappeared in My Sleep: Narcissistic Abuse – Charrese Monique (Testimony)

My Hair Disappeared in My Sleep:

Narcissistic Abuse

- Charrese Monique (Testimony):

Imagine waking up one day, and almost all of your hair is missing . . . MISSING. It is not on your pillow. It is not on the floor. It is just simply NOWHERE TO BE FOUND.

Imagine waking up to go to the restroom, and what you see in the mirror . . . IS YOUR HAIR MYSTERIOUSLY REDUCED TO ONLY ABOUT AN INCH LONG and some places EVEN SHORTER, and this is ALMOST ALL OVER YOUR HEAD . . . about 99%. HAIR: NOWHERE TO BE FOUND.

That is what happened to me back in 2014. Be careful who you call "best friend", "friend", "family", etc., including in your family.

For we are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places.

-Ephesians 6:12

Imagine the culprit being someone you once held closely to you . . . .

Imagine the Holy Spirit comforting you and you NOT CRYING when you see your almost bald head: This is my truth!

Imagine no weapon forming against you prospering: GOD grew my hair back more beautiful, healthier, and longer than it was before it was "removed".

Imagine you still being confident and (humbly said) still feeling beautiful through it all: I NEVER lost my confidence.

Understand this: NOTHING a person attempts or does to sabotage God's will for your life will succeed! This is MY truth! This is GOD'S truth!

Because of Jesus . . . I win. I received more than and healthier than what I had lost! Hallelujah! On to the future I go!

Note: This is my real hair (in the video). I have trimmed it as well as cut it several times for its health. How it looks with the additional hair added (end of video) is about my desired length, God willing. God is amazing.

God is Love,

All Glory to God,

Boldness & Virtue Ministries

Charrese Monique